CHARACTERLESS?

She wants to be used. She asks for it. We use her. We throw her. It doesn’t make a difference to her. She is characterless. Now if somebody, so readily, displays their desire to be used; why would we hesitate? She likes it and we don’t mind it. There is no guilt involved ‘cause we are giving the woman what she wants. We don’t treat good girls from good families like this. We don’t talk about our female friends like this. We respect respectable women.

That’s a man talking.

Most women would agree with the men in this respect. She is a shameless woman, she deserves it. Alright, maybe she does, maybe she doesn’t; but that’s not the point.

The fact that a woman wants to be used, talks about her character. Whether or not you use her, talks about your character!

Like my father asked me once- “You see the door. You see the keyhole. Would you look through it or would you walk away?” It tells you how the magnitude of self control defines your character.

Well, another question that is asked often is- “If you saw a Rs.100 note on the road, would you pick it up?”
Some would pick it up- Why not?
Some would pick it up and leave it in a temple- Fair enough.
Some would just leave it there- Not mine!

When it comes to treating women, or people in general, most of us would use them.
Extremely rare but not an impossible scenario where some great fellow would go out of his way to lead her to the right path.
Leaving her there, letting her be what she wants to be and respecting her just like he respects other women in his life; now that’s a Man!

Those Boring Days

You know, those days, when you are seriously bored and you don’t want to go out with friends, no matter how much they force you to? You sit back and think -"Aah same old stuff, meet up, go to the restaurant, pounce on your food, get a little tipsy, same old gossip ;what fun? Aah not fun!" Yes, that’s the very day they have a wonderful time! And yes, without you!

You sit at home and flip the pages of your book. You are planning to study. You stare at your book and guess what, the book stares back at you. Still wondering, "I guess I did the right thing. I have to study. Got to work on my project, my assignments…Oh I should have attended the party! No…no…I didn’t really feel like going! Hell! They must be having a nice time! Or may be not? Same old stuff…grr concentrate!"

"I don’t wanna come cause I am bored." -what kind of an excuse is that? Study or no study, at one point you were wishing that they gave you just one last call and that’s it, you’d throw your boredom away. You’d rather get bored with your friends.

Next day you discover they’ve had a ball! Makes you sick in the stomach! Yet when they ask, "Why didn’t you come? It was so much fun." You say, "I didn’t feel like it!"
"I missed it! Big Deal! I wouldn’t have enjoyed anyway!" Oh alright, saying that just makes you feel better!

Then there are those days when you are bored. Again! You give your cell phone those intense looks and go- "Call me damn it!" ; and not a purr!